Daily Archives: June 7, 2011

They’re in our way for a reason

image courtesy of guardian.co.uk“Your most challenging relationship is also your greatest teacher.”

Do you have someone in your life whose habits or personality force you to speak up for yourself?

To find your voice and speak your truth?  Someone who keeps you on your “A-game?”

You know who I’m referring to because you can picture them now and you’re nodding your head in agreement.

You prepare for interactions.  You anticipate their next move and you might even rehearse conversations.

You’ve gone to battle with them –  in your head.

Again and again, I’m reminded that the people who frustrate me most are the ones who have the most to teach me.

Their behavior flashes like a mirror in the sunlight– and creates opportunities for self-reflection:  to be more patient, more accepting, and more open.

The loud reinforce the power of a softly spoken word.

The pushy make me ask myself, “just what are we rushing to and why do I care?”

The needy give me pause to ponder my own needs and how I’m expressing them.. or not.

The irresponsible prompt me to make more thoughtful choices.

And the selfish serve as a reminder of what I don’t want to be.

They’re in our way for a reason, I think.   Sometimes I can see the lessons; other-times I fail to see them until years later.

Remember …  it takes the sand irritating the oyster to produce a pearl.

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